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[quote=Anonymous]You should expect to pay for anything you would pay for were you attending alone. If you were able to treat him to the whole weekend, since you were the one inviting him, that would be nice, but if you've been dating that long, and are both aware of the discrepancy in your incomes, he should cover the cost of any expenses you wouldn't have incurred had he not attended (e.g. his own airfare, 1/2 the hotel room if you would have shared with a cousin, or the whole cost of the hotel if you would have stayed with family had you attended alone)

Honestly, though - this far into dating, when you're taking someone to a family wedding - I think these things should sort of work themselves out. Given the income discrepancy, and the length of time you've been dating - has he not made your life more affordable/saved you some money by paying for things you would have otherwise bought yourself? Such as meals out, vacations, etc? If so, he's more than 'paid his way' on this particular trip, and I wouldn't nickel-and-dime about it. [/quote]

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