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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is op to answer why I had jealousy issues in the past. Brother is the only boy in the family and Growing up he was reverted while my sisters and I got second pickings. When SIL entered the family she basked in Brother's glory while my sisters and I are still treated as second class citizens. [/quote]

Bright side OP:

Your bro grew to be workaholic, in a shitty marriage, to a trashy gal. 
Your parents neglect might have been to your benefit.[/quote]

NP here. This is the best way to look at it. In order to and avoid any comparisons or accusations that you're jealous I definitely would keep the issue at what the issue is: the inappropriate sexual nature of their interactions. Not just a jealousy over a close relationship.  I hear what you're saying here you don't want to have a sexual relationship with him obviously but you're picking up on every little thing to feel like you're being ignored. I'd rather be ignored than looked at by my dad in this way though as I'm sure you would. I would distance myself from them and not vacation. It doesn't sound like your dad is likely to complain about that but if he does I would just tell him you were very uncomfortable with the sexual nature of the relationship. Expect denial and embarrassment and anger and I would just deal with that and say here's some examples, giving the panty examples,  the touch examples etc.

Honestly, if it were to get bad with accusations I would show them the link to this post because then it'll really affect them the fact that this many people thought you were a troll because their behavior is so incredibly inappropriate it is not to be believed.

I don't think you were victim blaming. It's not your business whether she was abused or not or whether she is simply a lonely manipulator or not. But especially if you have children I would not want them to witness these inappropriate interactions.[/quote]

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