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That's really patronizing. I am a woman btw. When I lost my job it took me a few months to grapple with my loss of identity..I was basically so down in the dumps even if I went for an interview I probably would not be able to represent myself well. After 8 months I felt alot better and found a job. You all have NO EMPATHY for your husbands what soever.[/quote]

It took you 8 months to get over a layoff?

I hope nothing real traumatic happens to you in life.  You may never recover.

Put your big girl panties on and face reality.[/quote]

I'm doing just fine thank you. having found a job that paid me even better than before. You on the other hand good luck with your personal relationships with the way and lack of empathy for your supposed love ones.[/quote]

Not everyone has enough money in the bank to mope for eight months.

Seriously, it sounds like you had an actual mental health problem.[/quote]

Depression after a loss of a job is a valid issue..and many people may experience it. Not sure if you meant it as an insult. Yes I had money to tide me over for 8 months, after being a high flyer my entire life it was my first taste of failure.  Not everyone has a stoic upper lip. Also you want to find the right job. One of my friends was in private equity and he not only needed a job, he needed a suitable one. Took him 6 months to find the right fit, glad his girlfriend was supportive. Sorry you don't have a nice reserve to tide you over such issues.[/quote]

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