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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this is a tremendous overinvestment in the child. Somewhere in this family bed idea is a titanic projection of your own needs, your own being onto your children. Children can sleep perfectly fine in beds by themselves, and know that they are loved. So here is a new thinking that now they cannot: that they need to sleep with parents to be safe and secure and loved. Or worse, that their feeling of safety and comfort is paramount: certainly more important than the relationship of a father to a mother. I cannot imagine that this overidentification with the child is not harmful to the marriage. [/quote]It is-from a nanny who has actually witnessed this situation over a lengthy period of time.[/quote]
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