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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op speaking. I've decided against a ONS. I'm not seeking a relationship but I think a ONS is just too risky. I'm worried about stds and other important stuff. I think the most ideal is a friends with benefits situation. Someone to show me around DC and have sex. I definitely want to experiment sexually but the safest route would be a summer thing. [/quote]

Totally up to you. I will say, there's just as much of a risk for an STD with a ONS as an ongoing FWB, you never have an assurance of a clean bill of health unless you insist on your partner getting tested first (which i have done and my friends have done- generally men are willing to accommodate if it means getting laid).  Which is why condoms are really important.

But of course, do whatever you feel comfortable with.  For me, a ONS turned into a FWB.  He wanted to hang out more, and was amenable to sex, and that was all I wanted from him.  Again, I think using your intuition is the best thing to do, asking probing questions, etc.

I have never ever had a problem with a ONS gone bad (and I have had many) and conversely I have been on the third date with a guy (no sex) and he tried to hold me down to make out with me.  Anyone can pretend to be normal for a little while, so you, unfortunately, are always going to face some element of risk.

Most important thing, though, is YOU doing what you feel comfortable with.  Not for a man, not worrying about what anyone else thinks- do what YOU want and you are entitled to have WHATEVER boundaries you want.  [/quote]

By definition, a one night stand cannot give you a "clean bill of health" unless he carries it around with him.  That's why non-trashy women get to know a man before opening their legs for him.[/quote]

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