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Again, you're framing it likes its an active choice someone is making. We're talking about people NOT being interested in something. No one is thinking, I'd love to have sex but I"m going to withhold it because I don't think we should have sex as often. Good sex is a lot easier when you don't have young kids and you can just do it. It's a lot harder for many women to get the emotional and physical energy until the kids are more independent. Men act like nothing has changed except what the woman [i]wants.[/i] [/quote]

I just don't get how you can have the time and energy to, say, rearrange the furniture but can't be bothered to, say, take 20 minutes to read erotica if that's what you need to get fired up.

Now, if you never ever get aroused no matter what you try or if your energy is all devoted to things that are truly necessary, I can absolutely understand that. But focusing on low level wants you might have while letting your sex life sputter makes no sense to me. [/quote]

Well, which is it-- do women get me time or not? Because whenever I did do anything I enjoyed, my husband would home it against me if  didn't want to have sex that night. Maybe your wife enjoys rearranging the furniture. Maybe it's one if a thousand things she feels she needs to do to make the house run more efficiently. But I guess you get to judge everything she does through the lens of whether you consider it more or less important than sex. [/quote]

Sex *that night*? You're talking about an entirely different question. There are 28-30 nights per month in my relationship where we don't have sex. She gets considerably more "me time" than that. [/quote]

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