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Reply to "I'm sick with a chest infection and DH told me that "I'm not living up to my obligations""
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[quote=Anonymous]taking the ridiculous money/chores out of the equation: what kind of person makes demands--rather than helps and cares for--his sick partner? he is showing you who he is--and whatever rationalization you might be using to try to explain this away, it really can't be excused or ignored. I would start seeing a therapist and double up on birth control and figure out whether this man is worth sticking around for. and yes, having kids magnifies these things a million times. I can already see you staying up all night with the sick kids and your husband demanding why you didn't cook him a hot breakfast....because that is part of your 'obligation.' also, you should not be "OK" with doing all the cooking, shopping and cleaning. If he makes more $, he should use some of it to outsource. It sets up a very, very bad dynamic, unless you are willing to be a SAHM with no say. [/quote]
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