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Look, OP, I say this nicely but you clearly don't like your husband right now. And I'm sure if we got his side of things, it would be clear he doesn't like you very much either. The more you post about him,t he more it becomes clear you guys need some sort of therapy to work out your issues.[/quote]

This, OP. Sweet Jesus, this. This is so not about the trip. This is about a bucket of resentments swishing back and forth in a pot called "marriage falling apart." [/quote]

Actually, it highlights the key problem with our marriage.  But, trust me, staying around for those 8 days is not going to solve what 3 years of marriage counseling didn't.  I do love my husband, but he also knows he pushes my buttons when he drags his feet, which he does when he knows the decision is time limited and waiting means he gets his way.   Again, this is a one sided problem, in that if he were asking me, I would tell him to go.  But, if I don't go because of he says no, I will unlikely ever be inclined to say yes if he were ever to ask something similar.  That is a fundamental problem.  
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