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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I should have said Cuba, except that I was trying very hard not to alert the few people I actually know on DCUM.

As for where my marriage is, well, there is history that seems to be rearing its head in this conflict, which is why I asked in the first place for advice.  Even when he is supportive about my work travel, I still do all the logistics but for actually the driving and packing the lunch for activities and transportation. And I still arrange for someone else to do that while I am gone.  He just has to do what he is supposed to do anyway - feed them and put them in bed.  It's not even like he brushes their hair or even notices that it is matted.  He doesn't even try to work in time for me to Skype with the kids in spite of me begging.

As for cash flow positive and this being a financial stretch.  It is not a financial stretch.  It is a choice of where to spend money not whether we have the money to spend.

As for spending 8 days away, that is a very fine point that I appreciate now that you all have said it.

As for resentment, it goes both ways, I resent that he drags his feet until I have no opportunity to go.  It is very typical of him.   I am clearly harboring past resentment of just this behavior.

It is just another time when I feel like I am unsupported by him.  Well, I suppose what goes around comes around, and if he were ever given such an opportunity, why would I then say yes?

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