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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again.  How is that other moms seem to take girls trips?  I know is not quite my situation, but I see other moms all the time heading to Jamaica or Vegas or some other such place and it appears to never be an issue with their spouse?  How does one make this work in a marriage?

Financial issues aside, because quite frankly, with my mom giving me the money, it is no longer a financial decision.  As for my mom being against it, she is anti-Castro, pro-embargo.[/quote]

I do girl trips every 12-18 months with a group of friends.  Our DH's aren't douchebags and have no problem handling the homefronts while we're away.  I work OT and squirrel away money to make it happen, no hit is landed on family finances for this.
I think you're hoping that complete strangers on the internet to validate this trip and give you permission to go.  Personally, it sounds like those 8 days would better be spent staying home and working on your marriage.
And I'm dying to know how the second poster picked up that it was Cuba you were wanting to go to?![/quote]

It was quite obvious she was talking about Cuba.

Do you keep up on current events at all? I'm not being snarky, as I know I found it very difficult to do when my son was really little/demanding.[/quote]

Cuba is one of the bottom 5 places I'd ever want to visit, so I would have never figured that she was talking about Cuba.  On another note, why the hell didn't OP just come out and say that?[/quote]
NP here, because it was obvious so didn't need to be said. Plus it's not really germane to the story, other than to point out this isn't a standard trip to Jamaica or something like that.[/quote]

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