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[quote=Anonymous]Op, It's not about weight. No one is allowed to be rude. And if you allow someone to be rude to you, you've got to change that pattern (it won't be good for your DC to witness - use that as motivation) But this is on you - this is your responsibility. I think in matters of health, your father is allowed 1 comment (no matter how he awkwardly phrases it, mean or not) After that, say "Dad you made your point. I need to lose weight. I don't want to hear it again." If he comments again, you leave the room. Do drama, no storming out - you just excuse yourself and leave. If your departure needs explanation (like you're at a restaurant or someone else's house) Explain that you will need an apology from him of you will be leaving. Stick up for yourself. He will respect you more - overweight or not.[/quote]
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