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Reply to "DH wants kids and I don't."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I had VERY wanted children, and they are SOOO hard. They take ALL of your time, your focus, your attention, a good chunk of your health, and a lot else. Unless you're rich enough not to need to work, you will not have time to pursue hobbies, work out, enjoy time with your spouse, or anything the way you used to. Everything will change. I can tell you that, had I not been 100% into having kids from the get-go, I would resent the hell out of them. As it is, it's still very hard. DO. NOT. DO. IT. Agree with PPs that a couples counselor or a divorce is infinity preferable. If you have kids, trust me that you will probably end up divorced anyway out of resentment![/quote] I feel exactly like this poster. Wanted my children, love them completely, and yet sometimes mourn the loss of my independence. Would resent the heck out of them if I hadn't wanted them.[/quote]
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