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Reply to "DH wants kids and I don't."
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[quote=Anonymous]I wanted kids and had one . . . I would never suggest anyone "just have kids anyway." It is enormously hard work. It is a drain on your time, energy, marital relationship, money, freedom. It is putting your wants and needs second. Constantly. Also, as a PP mentioned, there is no guarantee with kids. Your child may be born with special needs. Or develop them later. I know a family. A tree limb fell on their toddler's head while he was playing outside. Freak accident. Caused brain damage and other injuries. Turned their lives upside down. Tragedies happen. Don't have a kid unless you feel that you're up for the long haul if it comes to that. Don't get me wrong . . . there's a lot of good and for me the good outweighs the bad. But it's not something to go into half-heartedly or just hoping for the best, or to save a marriage. Good luck, whatever you decide[/quote]
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