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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Keep dating for another 2 years.  then buy a new house together.

You can't simply move into dead mother's bedroom.  don't you think that would put a huge damper on your relationship with your SO nevermind his children?  it is very weird that you are even thinking about doing that. [/quote]

Trust me. That is an issue for me and one that I brought to the table. Dead mother's bedroom. Cooking in her kitchen. Yeah, just moving into the home that [b]she [/b]decorated for [b]her[/b] family. Oh yeah, that's just one more thing to consider.

But I love the house though. It's palatial. And [b]it's easier than ripping them from their family home.[/b] [/quote]

So don't do either.  It's not like you don't have a choice here.  You're both being selfish.  Just date him, what on earth is wrong with that?  If you are planning to wait a long time before moving in, then you can think about the finances of how you get their home for yourself later.  Even two or three years is the blink of an eye to a motherless teenage girl.  It's a very sensitive age.  You are being unrealistic.[/quote]

*Sigh*

SO and I have had the discussion about his children and their acceptance of his dating.

It really comes down to this: He has to live his life --while considering his children of course. But They simply cannot dictate when if ever he moves forward. Otherwise, the guy may not be "allowed" to marry until after they do!

Sorry but teenage girls simply do not get to control the lives of their parents--even if they are grieving the loss of their mothers. That's just life.[/quote]

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