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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm OP.  The "he cried " and the " yeah i thougt about that but that's not it " in reference to him being gay was not me.  [b]I've asked him directly to pull my hair or grab me hard on my hips in bed - sometimes he does it but I can tell he feels uncomfortable and isn't that into it.[/b] He generally wants to "make love."  He was also on a business trip once and I asked him to flirt with a woman at the bar and then tell me about it - in hopes that this would make me very jealous and inspire some passion within me. He would not do it. I feel a lot of love for him but not desire.  I have started fantasizing about other men when we are in bed - and I have to fantasize each and every time.  I just feel sad and guilty. [/quote]

I'm the poster who asked you if you were communicating him plainly about your sexual desires.

Re. the bolded, you've got a real mess on your hand because you did communicate in an explicit way, but he's not at ease doing these things and it's not fair to anyone to expect them to perform a sexual act they're not comfortable with.

I don't have any advice to offer. I'm sorry.[/quote]

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