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[quote=Anonymous]OP you aren't wrong. All those things you listed ARE part of having kids. It's just that, since they weren't your kids, you didn't reap any of the rewards that come along with all the bad stuff. Yes we spend a lot of money- it's to do things with our kids that they will love and always remember. Worth it. Yes our furniture is trashed. It's because they're running around the house playing and laughing- worth it. Yes the house is a mess- it can be picked up and one day the kids will be grown and gone and it will be as neat as I want. Worth it. Yes they are tiring/ but I am watching two people come into the world and transform into the people they will be. It's a reward beyond measure.

All of the negatives are for sure negative, if you don't have the positives to balance them out. And other people's kids (friends, nephews, etc) will never be able of bestowing those same rewards. So yeah, it'll always be largely negative until and unless it's your own kids.

I also don't blame you if you want to be childless. Just want to inform you it would be so so so much different with your OWN kids. [/quote]

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