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[quote=Anonymous]OP here- Just updating. I was able to file a report with my local jurisdiction here Tuesday evening, and, after contacting the chief of police of the jurisdiction where the incident occurred, I was also able to file a police report there as well and the LEO I am dealing with says they are going to investigate. His cheif of police was shocked at how I was just so summarily dismissed initially just because I do not live in the local area and couldn't come in for a sworn statement. So, progress, and I am feel better now that I pushed back and got some attention. A family member pointed out, probably correctly, that I am likely not the first woman this creep has recorded; it's not like he just decided to try this on a whim at age 44. I just most likely am the first to find out about it. So I will do as much as I can to get this looked into so he never does it again to me or anyone else. As for those who didn't care for the fact I was bringing my pregnancy into it- I see your point, and will factor it in going forward. Yes, I am excited about the pregnancy- it has been 13 years between this one and my last, and I've waited a long time for this to happen. The the day I learned of the existance of the video was also the day my husband and I finally got to see our baby via sonogram for the first time, as well as hear it's heartbeat. I yes, I do feel a little more vulnerable right now as I am AMA and worry about something happening to the baby; I watched my SIL miscarry at 16 weeks not too long ago, so not doing anything that would potentially harm my baby is there in the forefront of my mind, and the stress this is all causing worries me for that reason, that's all. But that has nothing to do with what has happened, as was rightly pointed out, and I won't bring it up here again, nor have I factored it into any of my conversations with the PDs. Thanks for all the care, and concern. It has been of great comfort to know there are others out there who find this as distressing as I do. [/quote]
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