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Reply to "Friend is driving from DC to Baltimore to visit a married man who she says is "just a friend ""
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Actually, I'm very happily married. However, I've been having to "save her" from bad male decisions since college. Whether is almost going home with a random creepy guy from a bar in college or wanting to marry the first guy who says yes. And when she does go home with the guy she blames me the next day! So yes I'm the mother hen but I also have to be. [/quote] After years of saving her it would seem you might have had minor victories but she has yet to surrender to your better judgement and taken control of her life in a positive way. Based on that sometimes the best thing you can do is let go. It does happen that when you let go they actually begin to take care of themselves. Can they in fact sink lower? Sure. But just like an alcoholic, you can't save them, they have to do it for themselves.[/quote] X10000. Some people need to get 3rd degree emotional burns before they realize. [/quote]
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