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Reply to "not so subtle weight comments from DH ruining my vacation"
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[quote=Anonymous]It's not acceptable for your spouse to belittle and insult you. EVER. However, to those who seem to think a spouse should suck it up when a previously thin partners packs on the pounds, I'm guessing you're the one who packed on the pounds. I would not be happy if my trim hubs got fat, and he would not be happy if fit me did the same. You have a responsibility to stay attractive for each other (within whatever the two of you consider attractive of course, every couple different.) Frankly I'm appalled by the number of women I know who seem to think getting married and having kids is an excuse to fall apart physically, not just in terms of weight but wearing slovenly clothes, hair never tidy, etc. I mean if you truly don't care anymore do what you've got to do but don't complain when your partner loses interest. And there are plenty of moms of three with jobs who stay at a manageable weight. [/quote]
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