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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you feel pretty strongly about it. I think rather than trying to find a way to do it behind your wife's back I would work on getting your wife on board with the idea. Slowly, letting her ask whatever she needs to ask and then sitting with it, etc. I think that's the only way for this to work. [/quote]

I feel a very strong obligation to help my friend. I also don't want to irretrievably destroy my marriage.[b] I am conflicted.[/b][/quote]

OP, you made a VOW of loyalty to your wife, for the rest of your life.  You promised her that you would put her above all others, that you would love her and cherish her as long as you both shall live.

You may feel a sense of gratitude or appreciation for this other female friend, but you did not make a solemn vow to her to be loyal to her for the rest of her life.  You made that vow to your wife.  Therefore, your wife should and must be your first priority.

The fact that you feel conflicted is really disturbing, and the fact that you are going to persist in this with absolutely no consideration of your vows to your wife is not only selfish and inconsiderate; it is borderline sociopathic.  Frankly, you strike me as flattered at this very wealthy woman coveting your sperm, and you're letting your flattery go to your head.  As far as I'm concerned your wife is better off without you.[/quote]

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