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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ugh, asking for sex it a huge turn-off.  [/quote]Not for me.  I'd rather dh would use words but he sees that as begging.  What's wrong with being direct about what you want?[/quote]

Men should just know. Forcefully pursuing sex even if she is playing "hard to get" is sexy. Shows his passion. Being desired makes her feel desirable. If he asks, it ruins the fantasy.

But, when she isn't playing hard to get but (even though saying the exact same words and taking the exact same actions) truly doesn't want to have sex with the guy, he should just know not to try to initiate sex. If he asks, it's creepy.

See also: Schrodinger's Rapist. [/quote]Pp here.  I hope you're being facetious because I think that's ridiculous.  We tell children to "use words." Grown ups should be able to talk about their needs.[/quote]

Yes, being facetious. There does seem to be a desire for a sexual partner to be a mind reader. Expressing your sexual needs and wants puts you in a vulnerable position. So it's not surprising that people are reluctant to do it. [/quote]

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