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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Implicit in monogamy is some responsibility to meet your spouse's reasonable sexual needs under ordinary circumstances. [/quote]

Even if those needs don't match up with your own?  I am a DW whose husband always makes sure his needs are met.  His response to my LD?  Great! Now he doesn't even both to try to make me feel good.  [/quote]

Exactly.  The fact is, since many women are not getting sexually satisfied through intercourse, the sexual "implicit contract" has already been violated.  If we get angry at wives for not having sex with their husbands we need to get angry with husbands for not getting their wives off. [/quote]

I would freely agree that a wife in that circumstance has a legitimate beef with her DH, and he has an obligation to work to improve.  [/quote]

This assumes, I would think, that the wife knows what would get her off and has told the DH or, alternatively, does not know, has told DH she doesn't know, and has told DH she's willing to try different stuff until they figure it out. (Also assumes that what gets her off is "reasonable" -- if she needs him to build the pyramids with a unicorn while wearing a clown costume before she can get off, then I don't think he's obligated.) [/quote]

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