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[quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't say that you should leave, but I would say that you need to seriously explore some different future scenarios here. What if... your SD continues to be a person you despise, despite your efforts, and your DH continues to accept that behavior and not draw any boundaries? Won't you be very VERY bitter you did not have your own child? ...What if.... your DH were able to articulate some ground rules and SD rejected them (and him and you)? Won't he be very angry at you? ....What if... you and your DH have another issue (money is a likely one) about SD and it can't be resolved? I hope that SD matures, you can let go of her hurtful behavior, you all grow closer over time. But I think you need to imagine what if this isn't how the story ends and consider that seriously.[/quote]
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