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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the words, "I cherish you" ever came out of my mouth while speaking to my wife, she'd laugh me out of the room. [/quote]

I was thinking about this the other day.  All of those romantic songs (especially the ones from the 70s and 80s).  Kenn Rogers, all the other duets, etc.  Lady in Red.  If you actually spoke the lyrics to your wife or girlfriend, they would think it was the most pansy, unattractive thing ever.  Somehow it's OK to hear it in a song or read it in a poem, but not hear it from your man.[/quote]

I was thinking about this last night when I was listening to the Temptations singing "Ain't too proud to beg." He talks about how he doesn't mind looking weak or people laughing at him begging because it's that important that the girl stay with him. If the guy actually did these things, the woman would not be attracted to him, but the way David Ruffin belts it out, it's badass. [/quote]

One time a guy begged me not to break up with him. He said I'm literally begging you and I thought it was amazing. He was a really confident guy, had a dangerous job, and also the only guy I've been with who was truly comfortable talking about his feelings. [/quote]

Ive had the same and same reaction.  To me it actually proved how confident he was. I still think he was the most purely heater guy Ive ever dated- there was never any pretense, he was always 100% honest so I knew exactly where he stood, knew he meant what he said.

Even though I was mad enough at the time not to accept his apology and agree to date him again, I still think back at that interaction and honestly I could practically jerk off over it.  The expression on his face was so plaintive, so open- and so masculine at the same time, like he was so desperate for me.

I texted him about a year later (I had moved cities) but he was dating someone else, and again, we are in different cities.  We might get back together one day though.  That look on his face... HOT.

Advice to dudes: if you really like a girl, be honest and be plaintive.  Any strong woman will not be turned off by it.[/quote]

Agreed.  It is sexy. [/quote]

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