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I have to figure that out? I do?

Here's the issue. I need foreplay. Lots of it. I prefer to climax through oral sex, will settle for manual in  a pinch.  My DH won't engage in any of it, won't learn, won't follow my lead. Just stopped trying.   How do you propose I resolve this, other than masturbating alone and feeling angry?[/quote]

You stand up for yourself using the same "Sex is an important part of marriage" argument as I am now.
This is asserting your needs and is a healthy thing for relationship.
Pace the sex so you get your O at the start. Just keep interrupting the flow until he learns that play stops when he turns selfish.[/quote]
I don't get my O's from blow jobs or intercourse. There is nothing to pace. [b]Half-assed picking between my legs the way people pick at their noses doesn't do it.  [/quote][/b]

What in the fuck?  Someone is touching your vag as if they're picking their nose? That sounds totally painful, and is probably the reason you havent orgasmed since the vast, vast majority of women orgasm from clitoral stimulation and not penetration.  Sounds to me like you need to learn your own body first and then train your hubs what to do.[/quote]

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