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[quote=Anonymous]Please ignore the haters/trolls. I just wanted to say that I completely understand. I was home with my 2 kids, and one was so much more exhausting to watch then the other one. I also found it hard to get chores done during the day, it's fine if you just do them at other times. Do what works for you. As far as the family time, if you aren't getting any family time right now, that's ok. When things calm down in a few years and your toddler is easier to handle, it will be easier to do things with the 3 of you together. As far as your questions about how to increase each of your alone time, I think sit down with DH and instead try to figure out which alone time you each prefer the most, and try to get more of that. For example, I don't know what it was about being able to get away for just 1 hour and go to a bookstore and have a cup of coffee, but when my son was a baby I loved that. (Compared to if I had alone time at home for 1 hour, it was just ok.) [/quote]
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