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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - thanks to those of you with thoughtful advice, it has been helpful.

Also, just for the record, in DW's own words this was more than a daydream or some kind of junior HS crush. Thanks. [/quote]

I hope you are not listening to the horrible advice from women to "step up your game".

The women who suggest you may not be satisfying her sexually and need to give her more oral are particularly revolting. Apparently, "I promise to love, honor and cherish... [i]unless you don't eat my pussy enough[/i]" is the DCUM woman's idea of a "marriage vow". (Something tells me they wouldn't think a man had a license to cheat if his wife wasn't giving him enough BJs.) The problem is that if she is fantasizing about this other guy, you can eat her out until your chin looks like a glazed doughnut and it won't do you any good. She'll just lie there thinking about [i]him [/i]eating her out.

She is taking you for granted. "Stepping up your game" will only make her take you even more for granted. What you need to do is show her you are attractive to other women. Remember that YOU are the prize, not her. Get in shape, dress well, take up some new interests, disappear mysteriously in the evenings and refuse to account for your whereabouts, start mentioning cute new coworkers, things like that. But from the sound of things, there's only a slim chance that will work, and then only if you're the kind of guy who can pull it off.

You've been dumped before, right? And you didn't want to see it, you refused to see it, until she dropped the nuke? I think you know the missile is in the air now, and it's only a matter of time before it detonates. Really the only thing to do in that situation is launch first. File for divorce and move out. At least you'll preserve a modicum of self-respect that way.[/quote]

This is all fantastic advice if you want to make sure she files for divorce immediately and ends up with the other guy.

Whatever you do, do [b]not[/b] do this.  If anything, she already has a potential partner lined up, so she will win if you start playing games.

Being loving and kind is the way to go.  Not starting passive aggressive mind games where no one will win.[/quote]

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