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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm so glad that I married the woman I did. she gives me my space and trusts me And doesn't get bent out of shape when I go to happy hour and she doesn't need to because I'd never cheat. I have no desire to break my marriage up and end up with one of the many insecure women posting on these boards.[/quote]

She's not talking about staying out late once in a while.  She's speaking about being deliberately misled for a long time.  Since your wife is secure, it sounds like you wouldn't pull crap like that.  It's the lying.[/quote]

It is the insecurity and the lying.

[b]They are both at fault here.[/b]

Easy fix.  Could be much, much worse.[/quote]

NO. She's done nothing wrong. He's been neither at work or home for 6-8hrs on a weeknight for the past several months while she was at home with 3 small children. He purposely misled her by withholding that he was out drinking and socializing. And for fun, let's pretend she is insecure. That's not a "fault." She hasn't done anything faulty.

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They are a couple.  There are insecurities within their marriage that have led to him having to lie.  They are both at fault.

If there is a person MORE at fault....to make you all feel better....then yes he is more at fault.  But you have to ignore the underlying issue of insecurities and unrealistic expectations.[/quote]

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