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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You really can't be that picky if as you say you don't look like Miss America. [b]Most men in their mid-forties are dating women 10 years younger,[/b] while most women in their mid-forties get asked out by men in their sixties. Be happy that he is a nice guy whose only problem is he looks a little shlumpy, because if he gets fixed up he will get noticed by woman in their mid thirties.[/quote]

No, some are but not most, and definitely not the shlumpy ones.[/quote]

Maybe from what you have seen, but I have seen plenty of desperate women in their late 30's who were picky about superficial things like the OP's issues, come to realize they are going to be  a childless old cat lady if they don't expand their horizons. [/quote]

I think you are more trying to scare women into sleeping with schlumps like yourself rather than giving actual advice.

Nice try, but no dice. [/quote]

Nope. I am a married women in her mid forties. I work with lots of women in their 30's who are single. Several of the  ones in their mid to late 30's really want a family but on dating sites keep finding men in their late forties are the only ones who want to go out with them. They are average looking (as I am) and can't find men in their late 30's. the OP is being picky about superficial things as if she were in her 20's. [/quote]

Whatever loser. Just because you are average looking doesnt mean the rest of us are.  Trust me, I have no issues finding dudes.  The "all women are lonely" after 35 thing is a myth that unhappily married women like to glom onto to support their feeling that getting married to a loser was the right, pragmatic thing to do because their options would have dried up anyway.

But it's not the case for us cuties![/quote]

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