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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My only comment here is that 16 is too young to have such a serious relationship. Too much drama.[/quote] This is it in a nutshell. Really has nothing to do with prudishness about sex. Emotional maturity and life experience is just not there yet. Could we stop harping on class rank and ballerina? So, if she was flunking out and a total slacker, then the sex part is not ok. Give me a break. Developmental appropriateness matters. [/quote] I think the importance of her class rank and extra curricular activity is that she is doing everything else "right" and her relationship has not effected her grades or dedication to her chosen activity. The boy is not the sole focus of her life. I think if she is as mature as she sounds at 16 (setting her own curfew) then this is developmentally appropriate behavior. It is how most girls act in college anyway and she is just two years shy of that. [/quote] Unbelievable. It scares me that there are so many parents like you in this area. And by the way, it's "affected," not "effected."[/quote] What's scary about it? You raise your child according to your sense of morality. I'll raise my child according to my sense of morality. OP will raise OP's child according to OP's sense of morality.[/quote]
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