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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have read most of the replies, and I will definitely be in the minority here. I just don't get the whole "exclusivity talk". For me, if I start dating someone and especially if I sleep with someone, it means I am attracted to them, in love with them, infatuated with them. I just don't get how people can date/sleep with several people at a time?? For me, if I agree to have a relationship with you, automatically means that I am into you, I am not interested in anyone else - no need for any "official" exclusivity talk. So, to respond to OP - that would be a deal breaker for me, and I would also feel hurt and betrayed if something like this happened. [/quote]

Everyone is different and I think that is why it is important to have "the talk" these days.

Usually for me it is asking "Are you seeing anyone else".  I've been asked the same and I always answer honestly.  If I'm not seeing anyone else and I don't plan on looking, I'll say: "No.  And if I do want to see someone else, I will let you know.  I'll be open and honest and would appreciate the same in return.".

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