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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]About to leave the work force to raise DS full time.  Just had an interesting convo w husband. [b] He wants to cancel cable. I want to find a lower cost cable package. He says "well I'm not paying for it".[/b]  I'm currently working and could pay for it but the discussion freaked me out. I told him I need a monthly allowance once I quit so I have some discretionary income of my own. What are some things you stay at home spouses do that work for you?[/quote]

It is clear that he thinks is 'his' money and not 'our' money. I would be very cautious and worry about the power dynamics once you do quit your job.  I fear your DH will become controlling and may not treat you well.

How easy would it be you to get back to work in your field? If it easy to find a new job for more or less same money, then the decision is easy and you can always get back to work if things do not work out.

On the other hand, if it would be hard for you to find a comparable job, the consequence of a bad decision are much higher. One thing to try would be if you can do a trial 'quitting' for 3 months. Second, have a clear and honest conversation with DH. 
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