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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here, that came out wrong. I'm sure DH is worth it if you get there, would you have married him if not?  Again, good luck. [/quote]

the PP you were responding to and no worries, no offense, I dont disagree.  I'm in my early 40's but I have 2 young kids I adore and a stable home life and a big job.  I wish like hell I had more confidence that I could improve my sex life, but I dont - it was never rockin' to begin with with DH (we were well matched in every other way and I thought I had had my fun in my 20's, I could live with it).  Given all that has transpired it's hard to imagine him becoming a stud in the sack at this point.  I've gone back and forth about it, as you can tell from my musings with OP about my very elaborate fantasies about the guy with the sexy voice, but what I come to in my saner moments (and what I've been trying to convey to OP) is that we have so much going for us: we're good parenting partners, happy kids, jobs that only work because of how we share the responsibilities, and I think we can get back to at least being good friends again.  Should I really give that up for the possibility of good sex?  I've been tempted but it just doesn't seem rational.

Fire away - maybe I should...?[/quote]

Mechanical aspects of sex can be improved to an amazing level with a little aid from toys etc. I think it is worth trying it out and see what your mileage is. 
Non-mechanical aspects require him to want it so may be harder. 
Point being - don't assume things cannot be a lot better with DH.  [/quote]

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