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[quote=Anonymous]12:46 here.  OP, I am so sorry you didn't get a better response from your DH.  In some ways it feels lonely to do it all on your own, but in other ways, it is really easier.

The worst period for me was when I was trying to make decisions in a way that would take account of my DH.  He just never could come through (or rarely).  The stress of expecting something and never getting it was too much.  Once I started making decisions on my own for myself and my children, I felt a lot better.  Also, this limbo-period is hard -- when you are still in the marriage but unsure if it will survive.

I realized that if I couldn't depend on my DH, I could depend on other people.  Pick a few good friends who you can tell all and whom you know won't judge and will be supportive.  Tell your parents and siblings all if they can be helpful and nonjudgmental.  Build a general support network of other moms (single or married) with whom you can share family meals, exchange babysitting or playdates, etc.  You can create a support network without your spouse; you do not have to be alone.

Whether or not you decide to keep the baby, you will need support from others.  [/quote]

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