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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is the deal with this "the pill makes me crazy and my DH/boyfriend/hookup partner hates condoms" crap?  I'm 100% pro-choice but there are NO excuses for this, people.  If you don't like the hormones, get an IUD.  "I don't like it" is a lame-ass cop out for doing something irresponsible and then refusing to take responsibility for it. If you are using responsible birth control and get pregnant, that's one thing.  If you refuse to use birth control because it's inconvenient for you, then you are relying on abortion as birth control and that is straight up bullshit.  Abortion should be rare, not a fallback plan for people who are too irresponsible for sex.  [/quote]

I think that more abortions are forms of birth control than actual birth control failure.  I know a lot of my guy friends will confess that they don't use condoms or persuade their girlfriends to not use them or only use them at the end of sex (and yet that is considered bc failure, seriously?) or women who forget a pill or take it late one month but still have sex that month and it is considered bc failure.  That is NOT bc failure.  You should have used another form of bc that month BUT you didn't then you rationalize the abortion as not your fault.  It is your fault.  Use a condom, spermicide or all of the above. I am so tired of people BLAMING other shit because they don't want to admit it was their fault and because of their carelessness or recklessness they had to murder a baby whose only fault was having reckless and selfish parents.

I am pro-shoice but the more studies that come out show that the majority of abortions are due to these kinds of situations and that is bullshit. It is insulting that educated women cannot have personal responsibility and the will power to say to their sexual partners YOU WILL use a condom this month because I forgot to take a pill on time. OR I will pay for an IUD because I would rather NOT murder a baby.

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