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[quote=Anonymous]You don't need to write thank you notes for gifts that you thank verbally in person when receiving them. (Sorry, I know that was bad grammar, but I'm rushing.) You do need to send written thank you's for gifts when you couldn't thank the giver in person. I would be tempted to say, "I've heard that you are not comfortable with me sending written thank you notes. I just want you to know how much I appreciate your generosity, but if that's not done in your family, I will be happy to thank you in person if you think that's okay!" FWIW, no one in my immediate family sends thank you's for gifts, and certainly never if they are exchanged in person. If I got a written thank you from my brother's wife, I'd feel like it was a sign that she didn't consider us family. You might keep that in mind. We do always thank non-family members or distant family in writing.[/quote]
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