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Reply to ""Engagement" ring years after the fact? Yay or nay?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Op, You sound really nice and really reasonable to me. I think your desire for a nice ring is reasonable, but I think a heartfelt note to your husband might be better than a conversation. That way he can process what you are saying in private and have a moment to comtemplate it . . . my guess is that if you have this conversation in person, his immediate reaction won't be what you want and you'll feel hurt/mad and the whole thing will be tainted. Also, I think the husbands who are great gift givers tend to not be great savers. I'm guessing your husband is really responsible with money & a saver. I point this out so that you maybe see a silver lining to what otherwise just seems like shitty cheapness? There is nothing worse than being married to a spend-thrift man FWIW. Hugs, and I hope you get a ring that is beautiful given with a spirit of love . . . [/quote]
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