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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Absolutely.  There are many benefits of dating her. Especially if  a man is looking for a more stable long term relationship. I would assume the following things about her -
1) She is a good mom and her parents provide childcare for her kids. This would actually allow a man to have her over at his place or go for late night dates without her being anxious to get back to her child.  She would not incur babysitting costs when she is out with the man.
2) If she is doing this for financial reasons, it means that she is pragmatic about her money and is a saver. She values money and is not high maintenance.
3) She did not bring home dates to her house and did not get into casual hooking up because she had her parents and child in the same house.  So, there is a great chance that she did not turn into the bimbo who sleeps with everyone once a divorce is final. She has her head screwed on right.
4) She has a support system in place, which means that the relationship can progress at an organic pace. 
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+200. Can't believe people are raising a red flag ! She is trying to ensure her child has a stable loving environment[/quote]

That just so happens to be a total free ride for her. I'm a woman and wouldn't date a single dad who drove an expensive car and lived with his parents. Sorry, that screams loser. Don't see why it's different for a woman.

And I see there are cases on here where some people got screwed financially in a divorce and have to live with their parents. That's of course totally different but I still wouldn't date someone in that boat. Too much baggage and I'll be damned if I'm dealing with a dick of an ex that someone else is stuck with. [/quote]

+1000 If the roles were reversed people would say she was a user and a loser.[/quote]

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