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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hugs to you, OP.  It sounds like you're doing a good job.  He's got some nerve trying to justify his behavior by blaming you.  You really do deserve better than this.  You sound like an amazing person.  [/quote]

+1.  Only other advice I could give is to consider joining a divorce support group if you end up going down that path unless you already have close friends that are divorced or feel comfortable navigating the process.  From what I've gathered from my friends divorce can be expensive and having the right lawyer can make all the difference. I'm just one of those people that doesn't feel comfortable blindly following legal advice that I don't understand or have some sense of it being typical before I agree to it because I feel the stakes are too high if I sign a loan agreement, an estate trust document etc, without understanding what I'm doing. If I was looking at a divorce, I would be the same way. Also, given that I don't have an unlimited budget, I am cost concious and try to make sure what I am paying is the market rate and if it is more it is because I derive more value and it it's less either I am willing to do more myself or that I am willing to make the tradeoff, like someone starting out/less experienced if that is the cost difference.

You sound so level headed and such a nice person.  Wishing you and your kids the best.[/quote]

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