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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have many, many years of an outsider's inside view of your cheating-is-acceptable cultures, and it ain't pretty. You can pretend it's harmless all you like, but there are a lot of miserable, twisted women stuck in that mindset. They will be the first to defend men--oh men can't help it, and I'm the wife so blah blah blah. Just the way the abused will defend their abusers, I'm sorry to say. [/quote]
There are a lot of miserable, twisted women stuck in bad marriages in your culture as well, don't pretend like there aren't any.  If you think that the husband is the abuser and the wife is the abused, then your outsider's view has simply left you ignorant of the tremendous amount of power wives hold in these cultures.  I note that you don't really know what culture that is (you really don't - are we French or Pakistani?), and that your views of them are rooted in cliches. But I don't hold it against you - you are simply unfamiliar with cheating done right - part-time, discreetly, by both husbands and wives who don't want to endanger the primary relationship, and don't. [/quote]

I'm completely familiar with what you describe. You may manage the finances, or you may have the family to enforce that everyone puts on a good face, but that's not giving you power to live an honest life with a man who doesn't bring home diseases and throw away on other women the time and money and affection that should be going to you and your kids. You really can't see how oppressed you are. You probably wallow in soap opera romances. [/quote]

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