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I didn't assume you're a man. I was addressing cheating as done by either side, but from a perspective of many years behind-the-scenes in-depth observation of a culture where cheating is acceptable, particularly for men. The women go along with it, just as you do, shrugging their shoulders and minimizing the negative effects, trying to tell themselves they somehow have it better if they're the wives vs girlfriends. You have to rationalize so much, don't you, when you buy into the status quo that exists for the convenience of mostly men. But I see the misery behind the outward "acceptance." You are so entrenched in it you don't realize how twisted things are. You're making the best of a bad situation. That does not make it a good situation, nor does it make it right or positive for someone to cheat.[/quote]
I know it's super tempting to think that you know better than someone else how that someone feels or should feel.  You think you are enlightening someone but really, all you're doing is shoving your own standards of goodness or of good marriages down other people's throat.  I think you are simply incapable of understanding that not everyone is like you or like people you know. [/quote]

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