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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In my opinion, if you were ready to adopt this child, then you wouldn't asking for opinions on this board. Please keep in mind that even if your nephew (right now) is 100% healthy, there is always the potentional for an accicident down the road that could be crippling; like falling on head and developing slight brain damage (this happened to someone I know). It just doesn't seem like you are comfortable adopting and facing any challenges to cone with you nephew. I recommend you let him go to a family who 100% knows they want to adopt and unconditional love a child, no mat[/quote] Let me guess. You are desperate to adopt and think you are far more deserving than op. She will and is finding a way to make it work. Kids belong with bio families before being adopted out. And, I say this as an adoptive mom of a special needs kid. Op, you will find a way to make it work. We were told our child was healthy, what ever that means, and we have special needs. You know what, he is a great kid, an absolute joy and even with everything I would do it again. You will be a great mom and aunt and like all of us, figure it out as you go. Do not listen to this poster. [/quote]
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