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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is the drunken display the stuff of all the sweet romantic comedies?  Maybe he got drunk because he had just been dumped for no reason.  Not the most mature way to handle it, but how would youl like it if he dumped you because of a joke you made?  So he made a joke that you found to be in poor taste.  People do that.  Why would you be embarrassed?  Did you really think your friends would think it was true?  OP I think you both have maturity issues--his for his frat-boy sense of humor and way of dealing and you with your emotional reactivity and honestly I think the bigger problem lies with you. Do you generally trash 6 months of relationship investment based on a single joke?  [/quote]

It wasn't a joke. It was a sarcastic insult - he implied that his woman was a slut. What is funny about that?[/quote]

17:17 here ....+1

There was nothing funny about this and it wasn't a joke, either intended or as delivered.

I've been with DW for 34 yrs. and have never said anything like this in public ... nor in private.

Ex BF is an insecure, aggressive little twat.  Leave him in the gutter where he belongs and someone else can try to deal with him if he ever grows up.[/quote]

My grandmother is not a joking woman and would say that type of "joke" held some truth to the person saying it.  Would ex-BF have found it equally as funny if in wide -eyed innocence you responded "you tell me, didn't you say that's how you got your job".  As my grandmother would day that would have shut him up and I'm sure he would not have found it funny.

^^^^yes his form of a joke was not funny.  It was degrading and insulting.  Don't be embarrassed as you do not control his mouth but do be embarrassed if you allow him to stick around.  You are to young move on he is showing you his true colors...Look!

I would have left him on the doorstep.  You are way too nice. Stay strong and don't take him back.

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