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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, its about 15 minutes to drive from work to home, from home to school and back to work so total about 45 minutes. [b] Yes I undermined mine husband on this because I felt this was important. [/b] And its not like DS knows about the argument so my DH's parenting decisions were not udermined.  it's not like Dad says no TV, and mom turns it on. Completely different.  For posters who say that I am making the illness up to strengthen my argument... Why would I post the whole thing in the initial post, the illness is of no consequence to my DH's decision. Some of you started asking if the cild was crying more than usual so answered.  He was sick for a few days, we kept him home Tuesday when he was fever free to ensure that not symptomatic anymore, he went to school today and was still feeling tired. [/quote]

OP, what if you said to DH that DS should not go somewhere, and then DH took DS anyway? Would you feel undermined? Would you be angry? [/quote]

OP here, yes I would be upset.  But you have to put the situation into the context of school calling, DS crying, and DS being a new kindergartner who is still adjusting to the new school. [/quote]

OP, you are saying that it was ok to undermine DH, because you were right and he was wrong.[/quote]

This is OP "undermine" suggests to me that someone holds a position of authority over me.  Which is not the case in my marriage. [/quote]

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