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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh sure. He seemed perfect for me. He was my soulmate. Then we both left our spouses and discovered all the things about each other that were hidden or downplayed during the affair-- like his heavy drinking habit and neediness, and my inability to communicate and stubborn need for solitude. We broke up. You cannot clearly evaluate someone as a partner when you're in an affair. [/quote] Stubborn need for solitude. Did u get it after the breakup?[/quote] Yes, along with feelings of near-suicidal guilt for about a year afterward, thanks for asking. OP, you only hear what you want to hear, and are clearly only looking for stories that validate or justify your experience. You'd be wise to listen to the good advice you've received. But since you won't, good luck with the wreck your life is about to become.[/quote]
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