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[quote=Anonymous]OP, what do you think will happen if you do settle into a nice relationship?  Are you going to change the partying ways?  If not, do you think that any guy (one who has seen your behavior at these parties) will be able to trust that you can go out, get drunk, and NOT hook up with someone else?  I'm sorry, but your behavior does not exactly demonstrate that you can stay committed in a monogamous relationship.  This is not gender-biased, btw, I'd have the same skepticism about dating any of your male colleagues who (according to you) act the same way.

If you want guys to take you seriously for a real relationship, then you need to act like you can be in a real relationship. Stop the hookups, or at least take them to a different social circle where your colleagues won't know about it.  If you don't have the self-control to do that, then you don't have the self-control necessary to actually commit to one guy.

The alcohol itself isn't necessarily a problem, but if it leads to drunken hookups or other irresponsible behavior, then it is a problem.  You need to be on control of your actions.  If you want to hook up, that's fine, but do it deliberately in a way that won't jeopardize your professional life.

-Former party girl, who had a very hard time settling down after I committed to one guy after years of hooking up with random guys at parties. [/quote]

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