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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Found a counselor with an opening for tomorrow.  I guess it's a matter of calling the right person at the right time.  Not sure she's the right person, but maybe it's a start.  I don't know how to explain the time off to my boss though.[/quote]

Omg and you're working while this is going on too??  Big hugs, Op. Tell your boss you're not feeling well and take the day off. Go talk to this person, they don't have to be the right person, just the right now person. Hopefully your dh said those things in the heat of anger and things will get better. I've been there in the black hole of depression, crying constantly, like literally couldn't stop crying, and had to wahm with kids at the same time. I got on antidepressants and felt every minute of the three months they took to work but I hung in there and one day I woke up in the light. I was happy to get up and I could smile and talk without crying.

You'll get there, Op, don't give up. In the meantime, take vitamins, get lots of sleep, try to exercise (lots of gyms have child care) as this will fight depression. Get some time alone, no matter how much it costs or who it pisses off. Trust me on this. Take care of yourself and be gentle with yourself. Once you're happier everything else will fall into place.

And tell dh he needs to either be supportive or be quiet. [/quote]

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