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As far as being a bitchy roommate, I don't want sex.  I turn him down when he wants it.  I am beyond terrified of getting pregnant again.  I cry a lot and tell him he doesn't understand.  YES, that's all I'm doing that makes him call me bitchy.  Turning down sex and crying.No, it doesn't make sense.[/quote]

Okay, now I get it.  On both sides.  You can't deny your husband (a reasonable amount of) sex and expect everything to be okay.  I understand all your fears and I understand his stance as well.  There are ways to have sex and not get pregnant (99% of the time) though I am not sure that that is really what you are afraid of.  If you want to save your marriage try to give him what he needs.  I am sure he is as stressed and unhappy as you are. He should be there for you when you are upset, but if you are crying all the time that could be more than he can handle.  Medication will hopefully help with your emotions.  Ask your psychiatrist about a mood stabilizer.  The sex part you are going to have to feign interest in for now. I had to do so with my DH when things got tough because I saw (and lived) how bitter he was without sex.  [/quote]

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