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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here and I missed that you announced at five weeks.  Tsk, tsk.  You are in the wrong here for announcing to anyone this early.  Ridiculous.

I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks.  I had not told anyone, as we were waiting a full trimester before announcing my pregnancy.

My MIL was beyond angry that she wasn't told of my pregnancy and angrier still to find out that I'd had a miscarriage after the fact.  I had to have surgery.  So what.  It was still easier to deal with associated grief and physical recovery without worrying that my MIL would have told everyone she knew that I was pregnant and then any other personal information regarding the pregnancy.[/quote]

Why did you tell tem after the fact? That pretty much defeats the purpose of not telling early.[/quote]

PP  and to answer your question, I, or rather my DH, had to tell his parents that I had been pregnant because I had to have emergency surgery (d and c).  [/quote].[b] I still don't understand. Why did they need to know? [/b] It was a d&c--quit common after miscarriage.  Btdt[/quote]

Not the PP - can you seriously not imagine why the ILs were told when she was having an emergency D&C?  Hell, mine wasn't an emergency but any time you're being put to sleep for a procedure it's significant.  It may be low risk but it's still a significant procedure.  You may have chosen differently but most people share that information with their immediate family.[/quote]

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