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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am sorry, but asking OP to do this is is complete BS.  I assume OP is a SAHM, otherwise how can she just pick up and leave for that length of time? Isn't the 4 year old in preschool?

[b]So, OP is being asked to be the childcare, the maid, the cook, the entertainer, etc for her nephews.  She will have to do laundry, make and clean up meals, clean up the house, do grocery shopping, provide entertainment and supervision for the kids, etc. She will have to pay for her own food, etc while she is there, and I assume if the food runs out for the nephews as well.  I hope she is offered a car to drive, and when the tank gets low she has to refill it. This is ridiculous.[/b]
I had surgery a few years ago and needed to be on bedrest for a month.  My MIL volunteered to help. We paid for her plane tickets and a rental car.  We got babysitters to give her breaks.  We paid for all the food.  I never, in a million years, would take advantage of someone like this and on top of it have the Gaul to paint it as a "vacation" and not just be direct and say "sorry, we are in a bind for work with no one to watch the kids, can you help?"

If the SILs family is so great, why can't they do it? If kids already have a nanny, why can't she do it?[/quote]

No, OP won't have to do any of those things.  If you had read more carefully, you would have read that the brother/SIL have a nanny that will be there during the day.  OP only needs to put the kids to bed.  Huge difference.[/quote]

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